When I reflect upon my own impending age; I sometimes fret and
angst about not pairing up and starting a family. How long does one have while they
are in their prime?
36, not too old, I just turned it and ran 10 miles
yesterday, sure it hurts more, but that’s the price of being a beast.
Jared Leto is 46, has been working since the early 90s and is
still breaking hearts
So is Travis Fimmel who can be recognized from the show
Vikings
There are two ways to live your life, are you like fruit?
Where you quickly become ripe firm and luscious? All the things that society
pines for in the movies, only to quickly be harvested, pass your genetic
material on and then live vicariously through your offspring, while you watch
from the sidelines and gain 40lbs.
One of the greatest sins of our age is that we do not encourage physical fitness after post secondary education.
Then we pacify ourselves with television, smart phones and medications because we know something is lacking, but we can’t quite put our finger on it.
Is this the path you chose?
Is this the path you chose?
Or do you take your fruit; the fruit of your labor, of your
body, your mind, and refine it. Are you fresh grapes in the field awaiting
the beasts to consume you, or are you a well aged wine? Are your best years
behind you, or ahead of you? Are you in a hurry to spill the fruit of your
loins like the profane, or are you preserving them for a mate of quality, for
someone deserving of all that is you? Are you grain in the field, or a twenty
year old single malt, the choice is yours.
Hone your body like the Smith forges a blade, hours and
hours of refining, amalgamating, tempering, hours on the stone, anything of
quality takes time, love, and pain.
Everyday you should be stronger than the man you were
yesterday, you should be smarter than the man you were yesterday and you need
to be a little more spiritual than you were yesterday.
Everyday, sweat, cry, cum, use all your glands; Everyday
read, learn, teach, stretch you mind and imagination; everyday pray, meditate,
reflect, become more spiritually and emotionally resilient than the man you were
yesterday.
Don’t be in such a hurry to pair up, breed, live a short
while through your children, and then die. There is so much more than that, so
much adventure. Don’t just live though your children, sweep your family up in
the adventure, a quest isn’t one man’s journey, it is for your wife, it is for
your children, lead them, it is the natural order and what they yearn for.
If you do not have a family yet save yourself for someone worthy, have strong beautiful
children when you are stable; both financially, and emotionally. Keep your knife
sharp, and seek danger from a position of power.
Stop looking for the perfect person and daily strive to be the perfect person, then yours will find you when the time is right.
And most importantly love, love with all that is in you, love until there is nothing left, love is all that we have.
Stop looking for the perfect person and daily strive to be the perfect person, then yours will find you when the time is right.
And most importantly love, love with all that is in you, love until there is nothing left, love is all that we have.
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